What To Say First When He Calls You

When you first break up with someone that you have been calling the love of your life, you probably have many things left unsaid. So much that in fact, you might need a muzzle to stop yourself from saying things that you’ll end up regretting. The goal here is to win your ex back, not chase him or her away from you with misfired words that carry wrong meanings.

Well then, what do you say? No matter what you come up with, it’s going to be next to impossible to deliver a line that will have your ex jumping right back into your relationship.  If you had one, I’d worship you.  The goal here is to get your ex flipping all of the right switches to start reigning him or her back to you.

“If every word I said could make you laugh, I'd talk forever...”

Keeping in line with the theme that “space is essential” all the time, try to start out with some indirect communication like leaving a message through whatever medium you prefer. Why not just drop a note to tell your ex that despite the turbulent miles in the relationship, you still valued your partner and that you want to see him or her in the flesh to deliver the message personally.  This keeps your communication short, sweet and simple.

If you do this right (and trust me, it’s pretty much a fool proof step), you’ll have the wheels in your ex’s head turning in no time. Yet another part of being human is developing a natural curiosity to things.  When your ex hears your message, he or she will be curious to know what they did to make you value them so much that you left a note.

Like we all know, getting an ex back is tough business and it takes a simple yet effective game plan to win them over. A good plan will ensure success.

So what are the things to remember when you’re going to get your first words in?

• Keep it short and simple.

• Let your ex know that you fully appreciate him or her and the role he or she played in your life.

Ladies and gents, it’s a hook, line and sinker that will get you and your ex back on track in the love department. 

Are you frustrated in your attempt to get your ex back?

• Do you find that getting back your ex is an uphill task that last forever?
• Do you feel like your situation is impossible or reached a point of no return?
• Do you feel lost and cannot go on because of a breakup?
• Do you constantly check your email and voice mail to see if he/she called
• Are you feeling massively depressed
  
  If your answer to the above questions are filled with yesses, then I strongly recommend that you check out The Ex Recovery System.

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