Does My Ex Want Me Back?

Will Your Ex Take You Or Leave You?

You've gone through the rollercoaster of sorting out your own feelings, working to better yourself and reconnecting with your ex.  Things are looking good if there’s more communication and some air of attraction being felt between the two of you.  The thing you need to keep in mind right now is that there’s a great level of uncertainty at times and you need to have a sharp eye and the guts to ask yourself whether or not you think your ex actually wants a second shot at the relationship.

Playing Hard-To-Get

Playing the “hard to get” card is risky for some people, but at this point, it’s a good card to have on hand. This is especially important if you’re seeing clear cut signs that your ex is into again and you feel the same way.

While you employ this “battle plan” though, make sure that you don’t get too carried away.  A certain amount of finesse is necessary here and the right amount of playing hard to get will get your ex to react the way you want him or her to. This way, your ex will be the one who will make the moves to start afresh.

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Bringing Back The Memories

Nostalgia plays a big role in patching up a broken relationship. The rule of thumb here is that the longer the relationship ran its course, the more amazing memories you’ve got under your belt and want to relive. Think about it for a second.  When you reminisce on all of the high times of your relationship, doesn’t it tug on your heart strings a little? I know it does on mine and it makes me miss my ex so much more.

Good news, bud, if you’re missing your ex, your ex is missing you too without a doubt. In fact, just look at it this way, there is a high chance that whatever you have thought or are thinking about, your ex is thinking about it as well.  Sure, you’ll have to remember some of the more unsightly periods in your relationship but what couple doesn’t fight or have disagreements?

How To Figure Out If Your Ex Wants You Back

Does my ex want to be in a romantic relationship with me again? Isn’t that such a difficult question to ask yourself or mull over?

It screws with your head a little, especially when you think your ex is giving you hints that he or she does want to get back with you.  When you’re getting good signs, you’ll want to dive right into the center of things but please, for the sake of your heart, hold yourself back a little.  You need to take some safety precautions to prevent yourself from being played a fool because there are cases wherein an ex is just looking to mess with your head. The need for attention is a powerful craving and some people will do whatever they want to get the quota of attention that they desire.

For some exes, throwing you through loops is their way of getting back at you for hurting them.  At other times, some people are just using their exes to fill the void before they find someone they like more. You’ll need to throw your mind into the fourth gear to determine whether or not these signs are real and have no hidden agenda. Keep your head in the game and analyze the signs correctly to ensure that you don’t wind up with another broken heart.

If you’re not sure about what actions are genuine signs that your ex wants another shot at the relationship, it’s time to learn.  To get you started, here are some signs that you should welcome open armed:

“Let’s stay friends, okay?”

For most people, hearing the “let’s stay friends” line is painful and would seem like rubbing salt in a very deep wound.

It’s time to turn that mentality around because if your ex wants to stay friends, it just means that he or she still has feelings for you. The desire to remain as a constant in your day to day life is like reading a thought bubble over their head that is telling you that your ex thinks there’s a possibility that things can still work out.
Now don’t go running around town with your ex 24/7.  Play it cool and keep some distance to get your ex thinking about you.

The Phone’s A-Ringin’ and the Cellphone A-Buzzin’

A good solid relationship often has great communication. Although you and your partner have broken up, if he or she is still calling you up or sending text messages to see how you’re doing, it’s safe to say that you are still important to him or her.

Just like what I said before, don’t jump the gun with a reply every time you hear from your ex.  How do you feel when you don’t get an answer within an expected time frame? It drives you up the wall wondering, doesn’t it?

If you wait a while to reply, it’ll leave your ex wanting to talk to you more.

 “Got someone new yet?”

If you want to get back with your ex and they’re on your case about whether or not you’ve gotten into a new relationship, this is actually a very good sign.  The constant need to know about your social status could be because they’re looking for the GO signal to make things work again.  Don’t even think about pretending you’ve found someone new just to make your ex jealous.  It’s going to backfire and you’ll end up just as alone as you were before you made up your imaginary relationship.

 “Wanna meet up?”

If your ex wants to maintain communication, then it’s a sign that he or she wants you back.  This is an especially promising sign if your ex wants to see you often and for no solid reason other than to “hang out”.

 “This is what’s happening with me.”

Running along the lines of the need for constant communication, if your ex is sharing his or her problems with you or just talks to you about regular day to day activity, it’s an indication that your ex still feels like they need you to be with them.

 “Fancy running into to you here.”

It’s always something to smile about if you seem to be running into your ex everywhere.

“Stay a little while longer, won’t you?”

When your ex suggests that you attend functions or gatherings that he or she will be at, it’s a GOOD sign.  If your ex is a little jittery when you see each other, it’s a BETTER sign. 

When they do what they can to get you to stay around them longer, it’s the BEST sign.

 “I’m not looking for anything new...”

...just you. Although that may not be exactly what your ex says to you, it could have a hidden meaning. There is definitely comfort to be found in the fact that your ex isn’t looking for a new relationship.

 “What would happen if we gave it another shot?”

Wake up! It doesn’t get much clearer than this.  If your ex is contemplating and asking you if a do-over is possible, you’ve practically gotten the green light.  Your ex is fishing for what your stand on the matter is at this point.
 “How do I look/Do you like what you see?”

If you ex is making adjustments in the way he or she looks, then it’s a sign that he or she is trying to make an improvement on the things that you didn’t like when you were together.  Taking the time to tell you that they’re changing is always a good sign.

Now, if you’ve only just recently broken up, don’t get disheartened that you aren’t seeing any of these the things I’ve listed above. It’s probably just because your ex needs some time to cool off and think things through.  You can’t expect to be jumping back on the gun a few short weeks after you guys threw the towel in on the relationship.

However, if you are seeing these signs, it’s good news. Now you’re onto the second half of this chapter which talks about discerning whether or not the signs are genuine.

There really is a chance that you and your loved one can give things another shot. Even if you can’t always be one hundred percent sure about the situation, you can weigh things according to the actions that you’re seeing from your ex. 

Play things safe with a little hard-to-get.  If your ex really wants you back, he or she will work for it.  Also, keeping your distance for the time being has some definite advantages such as protecting yourself for what might just be the biggest let-down you’ve seen to date.

Painful as it may be, the signs you are getting aren’t always reliable.  If you want to put up a wall around your heart to protect it from another round of mind numbing pain, pick up on the things that may show unreliability. In the battle for keeping your heart well, know the differences in reliable and unreliable signs.

At this time, you just really want your ex back and this may cause you to read to deep into things or simply imagine things that aren’t really there. 

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