15 Ways To Keep The Fire Of Your Love Burning

Do you hate it when your partner starts to nag you? Are you wondering why they’re nagging especially when you pull out all the stops to put a smile on your loved one’s face? I know how you feel and it stumped me too at first but here’s what I figured out: it’s the little things that count.

I’m not saying that pulling off a great surprise or doing something out of the ordinary isn’t going to help you any.  It’s wonderful when you want to do something extra special, but from my experience, paying attention to the smallest of details and doing the smallest things will actually be so much more appreciated.  The science behind these "little things" is that it shows that you pay enough attention to know what your partner wants day to day.

The little things show that you think about your partner. 

“To keep a lamp burning we have to keep putting oil in it.”
~ Mother Theresa

Here are 15 ways to express your love simply and keep a smile on your loved one’s face:

1. Why don’t you try voluntarily rubbing your partner’s feet once in a while? It will show your significant other that you want to do it and want to make him or her comfortable.

2. Don’t wait for your partner to ask you to cook a meal and make sure the food is ready before he or she gets home. A home cooked meal is a great way to make someone feel appreciated.

3. Get romantic and set up a nice ambiance for you partner to come home to.  Getting greeted by the soothing lights of candles rather than the noise and bright lights of a TV is bound to be appreciated.

4. Sending a few short and sweet appreciative messages throughout the day should put a smile on the face of your partner. An example could be that you can’t wait to see him or her or that you had a great time the last time you saw each other.

5. Along the lines of midday communication, why not opt to send an e-card in the middle of a busy day to remind your loved one that there’s someone there thinking about him or her.

6. Offer your loved one your services.  It could be going with him or her to run errands or driving them to places they need to go.

7. This one’s a tough one.  Relinquish your hold of the television remote control. It shows an interest in the things that your partner enjoys and it serves as a way to get to know your loved one better.

8. Do the laundry. You don’t know how much easier it makes your partner’s life sometimes.

9. Be conscious of the way your loved one likes things kept.  If he or she doesn’t like seeing shoes scattered everywhere, put your footwear away properly.

10. If you’re both health conscious and enjoy being at the gym, why not work out together? It’s extra time spent together to bond and can you give you some things to talk about.

11. After a long day, showers are comforting and relaxing.  To add some spice to your life and keep your partner on his or her toes, jump in the shower with them sometimes.  Bathing each other has more perks than just being squeaky clean.

12. Does your partner massage you? Return the favor by giving your loved one a nice soothing massage without them having to ask for it.

13. Take the initiative and get creative with surprises.  Making a few simple plans for the tonight will leave your partner feeling warm and fuzzy inside.

14. Dating isn’t reserved for new couples only.  Sometimes, taking a trip down memory lane and dating like when you first met can really make your partner happy.  You can even make it a weekly routine and pick one day of the week to spend some quality time together.

15. Surprise your loved one in the middle of the day with a short phone call to check on how he or she is doing. You never know, your partner could be stressing out and hearing your voice could help him or her through the day.

You see?

It really isn’t that hard to keep your loved one smiling. Getting gifts or making out of this world surprises may be nice, but it’s the things that you do on your own initiative that makes a boyfriend or girlfriend happy. It’s not about how much money you spend for your loved one, it’s the little things you’re willing to do without having to be told. 

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